You will have a chance to write your own funeral, which will describe more about who you were in your life vs what you did.
The questions are:
Who will be in attendance at your funeral?
What type of service will this be, a celebration or memorial?
Describe the music you envision hearing and why.
Who will speak? What will the say about you and who you were for them? What adjectives would they use to describe you? What values of yours will show up in their description of you?